I read a really interesting article at the weekend about the former tennis player, Annabel Croft. It was about how her daughter, Amber, took control of her Wardrobe, which was stuck in the 1990’s.
This is what Annabel said about her clothing:
“For a good 10 years, after I had three kids, I got used to throwing on a uniform….I suppose I went into a bit of a tunnel and a lot my friends did too. It wasn’t until my children started growing up that I discovered I was completely out of the loop with fashion. I’d forgotten that it could be fun, and I lost faith in my own judgment.”
Having worked with so many women who find themselves in this situation, I found her last comment really inciteful. A lot of women have a really good innate sense of style but having not devoted any time to themselves, have just lost confidence. Once we re-ignite that dwindling flame, there’s no stopping them!
She also went on to say: “Looking back, I can see that my look had got locked in the 1990s, before I ‘d had children. I’d had the same shoes for seven or eight years and wasn’t updating them. So, thank God Amber spoke up, or I’d still be wearing my Dynasty suits now.”
Once her daughter took control, she taught her Mum how to layer things and to mix high street and designer pieces. She styles designer pieces with something clever from Topshop or Zara and looks to brands such as Elizabeth and James (designed by the Olsen twins), Acne, LK Bennett, J Brand, Issa (a favourite of Kate Middleton) and All Saints.
Having the figure of a former tennis player and probably a relatively healthy clothing budget makes it easier for her to look amazing but nonethelss, the point remains the same.
So, where to start if you have reached that stage where you finally have a little bit of brain space, and time, to devote to yourself?
Without wanting to do a “capsule wardrobe post” these are the items that I would look to add to a Wardrobe first to give it a new lease of life:
A good pair of jeans – and by good I mean well fitting, not necessarily pricey. I like these high waisted flared jeans (below) by Jaeger which at £35 in the sale are a great buy. I would also look to Not Your Daughter’s Jeans, Hobbs, J Brand at Shopbop or Levi’s, curve ID as all are cut for women’s figures.
- A good trench coat. Why? Because it covers a multitude of sins beneath and whilst also looking stylish. I like this one from Aubin and Wills which is reduced in the sale from £325 to £150. Made in the UK, it’s of great quality and will last for years. It also comes in navy. It isn’t too long so will look equally good with jeans and trousers as well as with a dress or skirt.
Shirts or blouses. Why? Because they are so much more forgiving and flattering than T-shirts or clingy tops. Shirts with darts are particularly flattering and ladies with curvier busts will know to avoid breast pockets. Zara always has a great selection. I particularly like this Loas print blouse from Monsoon which is now £22.50 in the sale. It’s a blue and turquoise delicate animal print.
I also like this pink Esther shirt also from Monsoon, together with…
this Suzy colour block sandy shirt also from Monsoon.
Add in a blazer to add a bit of structure such as this NW3 boyfriend jacket reduced from £179 to £89 (and likely to be reduced further).
Zara always has an excellent selection of blazers and if you already own a plain one, then an embellished or tweed blazer is a great option.
Some wedge shoes such as these Kara 2 strap espadrille reduced from £119 to £59, which also come in navy would be comfortable yet stylish.
An A-line day time skirt such as this one from Boden reduced from £45 to £33.80 (Cos has similar) would work wonders and is a flattering shape…
and a day time printed dress is always a useful addition to your wardrobe. This dress, also from Boden will lend itself to being put with lots of different colours.
Everyone’s needs and demands will be different, as will their budget and bodyshape. However, with the addition of a few other pieces, such as a couple of knits – I love this one from Orla Kiely reduced from £265 to £132.50 which also comes in navy.
a breton top such as this one from Boden…
some day time sparkles and perhaps a lace skirt you would be well on your way to kick starting your wardrobe.
Tomorrow I will look at those all important accessories which will complete your wardrobe, making sure that you are the glamourous 40 something you deserve to be.